For some reason during that talk in February, I felt like she was blaming me for feeling like a fake nerd and fake therapeutic therapist. But it did strike me while she talked, that it is true that she isn’t a real therapeutic therapist…as I thought about it, I realized how that could be said about many therapists. They are not only relaxation necessarily, but they are not real therapeutic therapists either. I wasn’t sure about the nerdy part…she is nerdy enough I guess…can you be a pseudo-nerd? But I couldn’t let her blame me for that…so I tried to reassure her. “You are not a fake…